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    • Sankalpa~ Giving Beautiful Meaning to Every Single Day

      Posted at 2:48 am by Lisa K, on November 12, 2017

      What is sankalpa?  It is broken down to mean ~ the highest truth of the heart which is followed above all others. It is an intention that you decide to follow that will serve your highest truth or purpose. Sankalpa is referenced in the Rig Veda which is one of the oldest yogic texts that form the foundation of our philosophical understandings of yoga. I have been to many yoga classes where the instructor will invite students to set an intention for the class. May it be to dedicate it to someone or a feeling inside such as “I am joy” or “I am courageous”. The wonderful thing about sankalpa is that it posits that you already are the intention you wish to fulfill. It is just that we must realize and use our mind to focus on bringing out these qualities within ourselves, to connect within. I find this concept to be innately beautiful. Imagine…all the doubts you have about yourself, the unsure thoughts, the potential harmful self-talk you may have from time to time- become non-existent. There is no place for doubt when we already are what we wish to be.  So confidence inspiring, with such conviction and above all so validating of who we are and what we are capable of doing. I am what I am meant to be. I am capable of fulfilling my dharma or my purpose in this life.  There is no question.

      How does Ashtanga Yoga help us to see our Sankalpa?

      Yoga helps us to tune in, to become aware of the thought processes and internal obstacles that make the awareness of our abilities become obscure. We live in a society ridden with self-doubt and unfulfillable ideals. It is like we all want to be something that we think we are not able to be. There must be some impossible task to create dis-ease and woe in our hearts.  Why???? Why do we want to feel inadequate? Why do we buy in to these ideals which are unattainable, therefore causing a sense of incapability?
      It is only when we are challenged that we can truly call on our innate abilities. They will automatically come to the forefront because we need them. It is not easy to commit yourself to doing a physically challenging practice on a daily basis. Ashtanga calls to us to do this. It asks us to be present, to breathe into difficulty, to find ease in what creates uneasiness. Yin and Yang are called to become one. A synchronicity within our internal controls is the savior to our woes. It is part of our creation. We live. We die. We are part of a cycle of life much greater than our individuality that we never ever become disconnected from. It is the fuel, the breath, the momentum of our existence. Sankalpa. Dharma. Life force. These qualities are one and the same. Ashtanga helps to repeatedly identify the strength and perseverance of what lies within so that our Sankalpa may become clear.

      Sankalpa makes me think about my highest truth and why we exist. What is my purpose?

      It’s a difficult thing to contemplate. What is the purpose of existence if we are merely part of a cycle? Why is sankalpa important? I believe it is a question we can only find the answer to in our own way. For me, I have only glimpsed my truth, most notably it has been in some deep conversations with my grandma that I have found some peace and a little bit of insight. I feel that part of my highest truth is to be of service to make the world a better place. I see this in my Grandma. My grandmother is a very strong woman. Among her impressive qualities are enduring love, she gives of herself freely with no expectation. She is compassionate, so giving of all of herself, her thoughts, her love and her life. I connected with her at a very young age. She made me feel strong, appreciated, capable and most of all, loved. I always felt that she would be there for me, even if I faltered or if there was negativity surrounding me. Her care was and is unconditional to this very day in her 85th year of life. She has discussed death and how life is part of this cycle with me from her perspective. When I hear her speak of it, I feel part of her knowing and understanding that it is just part of what it is to be a human being. Now that fact is mere science, but the understanding of it is a much deeper and darker reality that some priming for is a gift. My granny is a beautiful gift of so many things, I am grateful to be among those blessed to be a part of her family and life.
      You see, I view my Sankalpa as an intention with the undertone of service, of giving. The ultimate gift is to give without expectation. This is what may be the sankalpa of my daily life in little bits each day. I can be giving of my heart, to listen, to be thoughtful, to be supportive, to be kind. Like my grandma.  Think about those little intentions that you can do each day to fulfill your own personal Sankalpa – I am courageous. I am joy. I am forgiveness. I am light. I am giving. We are really all of these things already. Do you know that? Find the beauty within you. It is strong.  Share it with others and relish in the happiness that it gives you to make another feel your love. Do it without expectation. Find your Sankalpa and live it each day. How wonderful is it to be able to live your purpose, your highest truth, in little acts each and every day?

      Best Wishes to you all my friends.  May the new week bring many smiles, laughter and love to you💖

      Lisa Michelle xo

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    • Undeciphered Messages & The Eternal Burning Flame

      Posted at 1:10 am by Lisa K, on November 6, 2017

      When I think about how we interact with others and navigate this realm of existence, the most important way to do this with others is to communicate.  This means through body language, art, dance, music, actions and the most common of all- words.  When you listen to someone speak to you, if you know them- you can feel them, empathize with them because you have an emotional connection to them.  Your bond is much more elaborate and interwoven in complexity than the words alone.  What about when you hear a beautiful piece of music?  I have been brought to tears by music alone.  What about when emotional words are sung with beautiful music? The message and its impact are compounded.  What about a movie? You become attached to more than just words spoken by each actor.  You learn about them, become fond of them or despise them.  You form an emotional discrimination which leads your interpretation of their words.  Dancers feel into their bodies and express themselves to music.  When I watch people dance, I can be moved deeply.  Poetry also has a way of conveying messages in a rhythmic way which can evoke emotions in the reader.  For me, when I write poetry, I am able to express in words meanings that are more than just the words on the paper.

      Why am I talking about this?

      When I think about people I love and care deeply for, it is awful when arguments come about which are often filled with feelings that are never fully discussed or misunderstandings which were never unraveled.  This happens because of a lack of one simple thing ~ communication.  I think about our sort of sloppy and two dimensional way of conveying messages with the words we can make with our mouths.

      What if we could touch one another by the hand and have them feel our thoughts and feelings in the way that we experience them?

      How connected and understanding do you think every being on this planet would become?  Emotions and feelings are powerful. They drive us to do many beautiful and terrible things.  In the case of miscommunications- relationships can end.  People drift away from one another and judgements are made.  If we could feel the complexities of what is happening for another, my goodness, life would be such a gorgeous melody of love.  Because underneath all of the layers we have protecting our true being is Love.  Right? I dream of that powerful and enveloping love that is our essence, our true form unveiling from that soft beautiful place within.  Is it just a dream? In contemplating how difficult it can be to really communicate with those around us, I wrote a poem to express some of the thoughts and feelings I have been having.

      Undeciphered Messages and The Eternal Burning Flame

      My heart is true and open,
      My words are in synchronicity with my soul,
      My wishes are only positive,
      To be genuine is always my goal.

      Doubt and fear is all around me,
      It tries to worm its way into my mind,
      If only words could hold the intensity,
      Of the feelings that dwell inside.

      Navigation is a virtue,
      Tact must be a well honed skill,
      But I wish it was so much easier,
      That there was no expectation to fulfill.

      What is true connection?
      It’s hard to know for sure,
      Because if words could be felt by the heart,
      What we speak would be much more pure.

      Words can cut like a thunderbolt,
      If their meaning is interpreted the wrong way,
      So much of what we say is left unclear,
      Is it love’s faith that saves the day?

      The heart is a fragile gift of beauty,
      Which is kept protected from any harm,
      When it’s let out in the open,
      Damage can leave the mind unarmed.

      Look into the mirror and what do you see?
      The truth of you is in your eyes,
      Your beauty, strength and virtue,
      Is so gorgeous and vast to your surprise.

      Trust that your light is true,
      Because your words you can’t undo,
      If you gaze right into the light,
      You will be free with no obstacle sight.

      Love, Love, Love,
      Oh this word is not enough!
      For the body, mind and spirit,
      The meaning is far more exquisite.

      Have the strength to be you,
      You must honour what is true,
      Show others it’s okay to do the same,
      It will keep lit our universal burning flame.

      By- Lisa Michelle K

      I would really like to know your thoughts about communication! Please do leave a comment on this post, let’s communicate😉

      Much Love to You,

      ❤️Lisa xo

       

       

       

       

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