My So-Called Yoga Life

The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched- they must be felt with the heart. ~ Helen Keller
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    • What Is Love?

      Posted at 11:22 pm by Lisa K, on July 16, 2017

      I want to share a poem with you this week.  I have written this poem while reflecting on the seventeen years that I have been with my husband.  When I fell in love with him, I knew he was the one for me.  He is funny, witty and very animated.  These are all keys to my heart❤️  As love grows over the years, it takes on different characteristics and the partnership will inevitably experience ecstaticly happy times as well as despairingly difficult times.  It is strikingly different from what the fairytales say or the ideas we may have when we first jump in.

      At the end of the day, I realize that~ This IS Life.  This IS Love.

      We have ups and downs.  When the times get tough, that’s when both people need to try their best to keep growing together.  One MUST be willing to support the other.  We take turns being the rock and the one in peril.  With each joyful event, Love grows.  With each trial, Love grows all the stronger.  Two souls on One path in life.

      What is Love?

      Racing faster with each breath,
      I can feel my heart beating in my chest,
      Nervous, bright, focused and open,
      My body feels weak, But far from broken.

      At first so fleeting, quick and fast,
      My mind is reeling at this firework blast,
      I can’t tell if it’s real, it feels so huge,
      Like I’ve been spun up in a centrifuge.

      The roots of my tree begin to grow down,
      They lengthen and widen with each day,
      I care for and support it well,
      It becomes a place where hope will dwell.

      With the first big storm the winds gust,
      Deep thunder crashes and fear takes hold,
      The tree branches thrash as it is struck,
      Can it make it through, Oh please it must!

      I listen intently to what it needs,
      I give so much, my heart it bleeds.
      Please don’t give up, you know I’ve tried,
      I’m breaking, I’m shattered, I can’t be denied.

      The sun breaks through and shines on down,
      I sign with relief as my tree rebounds.
      The warmth and light penetrate my fear,
      I see now why I must persevere.

      Lasting as a river eroding through rock,
      As it moves tirelessly through its path.
      It is warm and soft yet solid and tough,
      An equation that can’t be solved by math.

      Love is exquisite, alarming and firm,
      Enduring yet fragile it’s hard to discern,
      It brings us together into one beautiful place,
      A treasure so valued, yet takes up no space.

      Nothing can parallel the emotions it brings,
      It makes me feel so whole, I can do anything.
      Steady and soothing, it’s why we are here,
      Love is the true gift from the Ultimate Seer.

      By: Lisa K

       

       

       

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    • Yoga For Tight Shoulders

      Posted at 3:07 am by Lisa K, on July 10, 2017

      This practice is done mostly while sitting with your legs crossed or on your heels if crossing your legs isn’t comfy.  No mat needed!

      I want to tell you a little story about my shoulders that you just might be able to relate to…

      When I was working as an educator years ago, my hours were around 16 hours a day. I traveled for 3 hours daily and was living life with a high stress factor. Luckily, I really loved what I was doing but I was paying the price for long hours by having very little personal time.  Though I was always active, there was just no time! So I thought I’d try something else that could be healthy- At the time detox cleanses were all the rage. I thought I would try one out since I could augment my diet and clean it up without interfering with my job. It Actually turned out to be really tough. I had to cut coffee, which left me with a three day headache, eww! After the haze lifted, I started to feel okay again. I was quite a different person though, LoL! So much more quiet and less bubbly were the first things I noticed about myself. Not bad things, just very different. I started to pay more attention to myself in other ways as well.

      I was walking around with my shoulders up ALL THE TIME.

      I sat at my computer and worked with them tensed up like this. I walked around the school this way, I took transit home, still tiring myself out by subconsciously holding my shoulders up. I had frequent headaches and felt tension in my shoulders, but thought it was from carrying my laptop bag around and general stress. Wow, once I noticed how this little habit had crept into my daily living, I was kind of shocked at how much I was doing it and above all, how completely OBLIVIOUS I was! I started reminding myself to relax my shoulders every time I noticed I was doing it.

      I think I reminded myself around 35 times a day the first week.

      Just imagine the times I didn’t notice! Anyways, I felt much better after doing this for just 2 weeks. After about 1 month, I had trained myself to function without the raised shoulders. The amount of stress and tension I had released with this simple change in my daily posture changed much about how my body felt in general. It’s amazing how expending energy and creating needless stress can affect the body, especially when you notice the change once it’s removed!

      Why am I telling you about this craziness?

      Well, for many of us, a computer or a desk is a daily reality. I thought it might be a good idea to share a little yoga sequence geared towards relaxing the shoulders and giving yourself a free therapeutic yoga session! I can’t be the only one who has created significant tension in this area of my body;)

      So when you finish up work for the day and want to gear down in a healthy and positive way, give this targeted and easy sequence a go!

      Put on some comfy clothes, NO MAT NECESSARY! Just a couple of fluffy pillows or if you have them- 2 yoga blocks.

      Yoga For Shoulder Tension

      Start in a seated position with your legs crossed. Sitting as tall as you can, take a few deep breaths to begin relaxing yourself. Close your eyes if this helps you to chill out. Then when you are ready, start with some shoulder rolls, go back into a circular motion slowly 5 times and then slowly forward 5 times.

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      Head Rolls

      Roll out your neck by letting your chin fall toward your chest and then inhale as you circle to the right, exhaling as you come around again. You can let your head go back if it is comfortable or simply bring your head through a half circle, letting your neck remain up straight as you bring your head up from your starting side.  Do 5 slowly to the right with deep inhales and exhales and then repeat this process going to the left.

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      Interlace Finger Stretch

      Now take your hands in front of you, interlace your fingers and turn your palms out. Send your arms up towards the sky. Hold here and take 5 deep breaths. Then open them and let them come down to the floor. Now take your arms behind you, interlace your fingers and tip your body forward, letting your arms come up. Hold for 5 breaths and then come back to sitting and let your hands come to your sides on the floor.

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      Elbow Hold Stretch

      Bring your hands to opposite elbows behind you, bring your chin down towards your chest and hold for 10 breaths.  This stretch is a bit more passive and it feels very good with the internal rotation of the arms while letting everything relax into the stretch here.

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      Side Body Stretch

      Take your right arm and lift it up, stretch up and over to the left, letting your left hand walk away from you as you lengthen to the side. Try to keep both seat bones on the ground.  Lift the chest, hold your low belly back.  Hold for 5 breaths, then come back to the middle and do the left arm up, stretching to the right.  After your 5 deep breaths, let your arms come down to rest on your knees.

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      Easy Twist

      Bring your right hand behind your back, palm on the floor as close to your spine as possible.  Bring your left hand to your right knee.  Now take a deep breath in- as you exhale, twist and turn your head to look over your right shoulder.  Take 5 slow deep breaths here and then return to centre.  Repeat for other side, taking the left palm behind your back as close to your spine as possible.  Right hand to left knee this time.  After your deep inhale, twist as your exhale and look over your left shoulder.  After your 5 breaths, come back to centre.

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      Eagle Arm Stretch

      Now take your hands in front of you, cross the right over the left and turn your palms towards you.  Now cross your wrists with the right one away from you and see if you can bring your palms towards each other.  They don’t have to be lined up.  Deep breath in and raise the elbows up until you feel the stretch and hold for 5 deep breaths. Then bring them down, letting your back curl up and your elbows come down towards your abdomen. Breath deep for 5 breaths here and then come up and shake your arms out!  Now try the other side with the left arm crossing over the right, palms turn towards you.  Cross your wrists with the left one behind and try to bring your palms towards each other.  Repeat lifting elbows up, then elbows down with a curled back and then come up and give your arms another shake!

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      Cow Face Arms

      For this pose, you can take a pillow case or other bit of fabric to hold if your hands don’t reach each other in the pose.  This one is a real stretch, so give it a try with your prop first and then give the full on posture a go!  So grab your pillow case near the end with your right hand and raise your arm straight up next to your ear.  Now bend at the elbow only and bring your hand towards the base of your neck on your back.  Take your left arm now and have it down, internally rotated so you can reach for the pillow case which is hanging down your back.  Use your hand to walk up the case, bending at the elbow as far as you feel is comfortable.  Sit tall, keep your head up straight and breath deep for 5 breaths.  Now let go of the prop and shake out your arms.  Let’s do the other side! Take your pillow case near the end in your left hand, raising it up beside your ear.  Bend at the elbow and bring your hand towards the base of your neck on your back.  Take your right arm now, rotate the arm in so as you reach behind you for the pillow case, it is positioned correctly.  Walk your hand up the pillow case a small far as is comfortable and do your 5 breaths.  Shake those arms out!

      If you want to give it a try, do it without the prop.  When you walk your left hand up on the first side, you can press it into your back to move up and grab the fingers on your right hand.  Same fo the left side.  It is an intense stretch so be careful when attempting this version:)

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      Cat & Cow Pose

      Come to table pose. Hips over knees and shoulders over hands.  Now inhale, as you exhale, round your back (into cat) and press your hands firmly into the ground.  As you inhale, let your tummy collapse down (into cow) and bring your head up.  Do this dynamic stretch 5 times while exhaling into cat and inhaling into cow.

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      Puppy Pose

      Come down onto your elbows and bring palms down. Let your chest come towards the floor as you extend your arms away from you into puppy pose.  You will feel this stretch in your shoulders and under your armpits.  Hold for 10 breaths, passively breathe into this pose, walking your fingers away as far as is comfortable.  Let your head comfortably lay on the mat.

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      Thread The Needle

      Come up to table pose again and this time bring your right arm behind your left hand and begin to lower your shoulder down to the mat.  Let your left arm extend forward and feel a nice stretch on your right shoulder.  Hold for 5 deep breaths and then come back up to table and let your left arm come behind your right hand, bringing that shoulder down onto the ground.  Same length in the right arm and hold for 5 breaths before coming back up.

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      Shoulder Release with Prop

      You should be back into table top pose once your prop is in place.  If you have 2 blocks, set them up shoulder width apart on the long side down (on the lowest level) and place your elbows on them. Bring your palms together.  Let your head come down towards the floor. If you don’t have blocks, get a fluffy pillow or 2 and put your elbows on that. It will be a softer stretch, but maybe that’s just what you need! After 5 deep breaths, slowly come out of the pose and put your prop off to the side.  If you were using a pillow, bonus! You can put it under your head for the next pose:)

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      Savasana

      Slowly lay down on your back with your palms up and feet resting outwards in savasana. Relax for 5 minutes or more as you wish.

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      How do those shoulders feel now? I bet they feel loose and the tension you had is long gone! So easy! So quick!  And the way your body will feel if you do just this shoulder sequence a couple of times a week will make a big difference! Hope you had fun with me!

      NAMASTE😊

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    • Five Tips To: Practice Yoga At Home

      Posted at 8:42 pm by Lisa K, on July 2, 2017

      The first thing people say to me when I tell them I do my daily practice at home is, “How do you keep that up? It’s so hard.” At one time, I absolutely agreed with these remarks. I was so used to going into the studio every day that I didn’t see how I’d ever do it at home and regularly.

      Well I’ll tell you what….

      Having a regular home practice can be just as great as going to the studio! Don’t get me wrong, there are most definitely some benefits to getting to see your teacher regularly, but there are many things that can happen in life to make this difficult to accomplish. Does this mean my practice should suffer? No way!!

      “Where there is a will, there is way. ” – This is a saying for a reason.

      If you want to make practising at home a reality, there are some easy ways to help keep yourself motivated to start and maintain a home practice. I practice exclusively at home and have for the last four months. I was doing two-three practices a week prior to that time at the studio with my remaining three-four practices at home as well. I had been doing that for about two years, since I had my son and began practicing again. Going to the studio is not something I can do right now. The beauty of yoga is that you can really do it anywhere you have enough space to roll out your mat.

      So what can you do if going to the studio isn’t an option for you or you feel like doing it at home is “too hard”?

      Here are some helpful tips for making your home practice aspirations an exciting reality:

      1. Have a Regular Practice Space

      The place you practice doesn’t have to be a cork heated floor with yoga art and a special paint job to be your space. It is more important that you have a place that is open enough to accommodate your movements and above all, provide consistency. By this I mean, always try to do your yoga in the same place. I practiced in my living room for some time until winter and then I moved it to a room in the upstairs of my home. The space was smaller and my little heater really made it nice and toasty. The important point being, I went to the same spot every day. By doing this you will become used to doing yoga in it and it will become a motivating ritual within itself. Just like going to the same studio does this.

      2. Create a Routine

      I laughed when I wrote create a routine because I thought doing my practice at the same time each day was important but the when part isn’t a make or break point for me. Having some flexibility with the time of day you can do your practice opens up more time for you to get it in. While for the most part I practice while my son is napping, the reality is that I practice in the evening sometimes or in the super early morning (if I’m lucky). And so in my experience, the “when” is not important for a routine. If you can make a consistent time, it is helpful but not necessary.

      What you do to prepare for your practice is what I would like to emphasize for routine building. This process alone is the most important motivator that will contribute to a consistent home practice.

      I mean who wants to prepare for nothing? LoL. I usually put my space heater on, and while the room is warming up, I like to go and brush my teeth. I unroll my mat into my spot and get into the clothing I like to practice in. Seems simple enough right? Even on days I don’t feel like doing it, if I end up at the top of my mat all ready to go, I will most likely go ahead with it.

      3. Create Small Goals

      This one is for the days where you feel extremely unmotivated. Perhaps you are sore, or tired or have a lot going on in your life. All reasons to practice!!

      I do my routine to get myself onto my mat and then say to myself, “let’s just do the sun salutations and see how I feel”.

      When I am done that part I usually feel like I can continue on to do the standing sequence. Oh and then look at that, I’m ready to get onto the seated portion. By the time I get to the end of my practice, I am usually feeling much better overall. The days I need to stop at half primary, I do it. If I am tired, I don’t push myself. As long as you can make it onto your mat and do some of your practice, you showed up and you did the work for that day. Remember, tomorrow is another day. You might feel like a ball of fire then!!

      4. Put “Yoga-Time” On Your Calender

      If you practice two to three times a week, it is a good idea to plan which days you will do it. In your day planner or on your calendar, write it in. This way if something else comes up that you need to do that week, you can slot it in at another time. Your “Yoga-Time” is already there so you can work around it. This creates value for the time you have set aside for your practice. When you start to plan around it, this serves as another way to compel you to follow through.

      5. Make Yourself Accountable- Recruit Help 

      When first starting out with a home practice, sometimes a little bit of extra motivation can be found in having someone else know your goal. They can remind you that you wanted to do this and that creates an extra push for you to stick with your plan. After a while, you won’t need this one as much because the longer you keep your practice up, the more intensely you will feel the rewards of your choice and those will be enough to keep you on track.

      Keeping these five tips in mind, you can see some of the characteristics of practicing at home that are unique and special. There are no distractions like other practitioners or the watchful eye of your teacher. That meditative place of concentration is more accessible and once found, on really good days, is downright magical. The breath leads you through your sequence like a cloud in the sky. Soft, yet moving with power and purpose. I have been able to connect to places within my body and inside me more deeply when I am alone. Awareness grows in the nuances of each pose and how the body responds each day. It’s a thoroughly enjoyable experience which you may also have the pleasure of if you wish. So take the plunge! Make your yoga practice something you can do at home, even a couple of times a week. I promise you will be happy you did. Namaste💕

       

       

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    • Yoga For Kids

      Posted at 6:29 pm by Lisa K, on June 25, 2017

      So I am currently doing an instagram yoga challenge with my kids! It is so much fun to do the different poses with them. I started thinking, I should write about how to do yoga with your kids! Simple, easy ways to bring yoga into your lives that can be as good for you as it is for them:)

      Think about this…

      As adults, people come to yoga for many reasons. A big one is to get healthy. What does being healthy mean? For some it might be losing weight. It might be finding a way to do exercise with a body that has limitations or health conditions that make many other activities uncomfortable. Once we start doing yoga and noticing the physical benefits, suddenly we begin to notice some unexpected bonuses. The deep breathing and calmness that comes from connecting to our bodies illuminates a new way to find stress relief and some head space.  As we do yoga more and more, it shows us that by simply connecting with the body, we can become more aware of the state of our physical, emotional, mental and even spiritual well-being.

      The physiological benefits of deep breathing alone have been proven scientifically. Yoga brings focus, stress relief, physical activity and helps us to connect with our bodies. What an amazing supply of tools we can share with our children!

      There are some easy ways to start teaching children how to do yoga. Loose fitting or active wear clothing are best. You don’t even need a mat, the floor is just fine to do these fun postures. Bare feet is best to help feel into them and so it’s not too slippery;) There are 3 breathing exercises and 8 poses included here. As your child builds focus and concentration, you can begin with a few and work up to doing all of them. Do what works for your kids and go from there. Let’s start with some breathing!

      Toy Ride Breath Exercise

      Have your child bring their favourite stuffed toy and lay down on his back with the toy on his tummy. Tell him to take deep breaths slowly in through the nose and out through the nose. Kids naturally use their bellies to breath and they can watch their stuffed toy go for a ride on their tummy, up and down. If you get him to take 10 deep breaths, your job is done. If you do this with your child regularly, he will think of it as a fun activity and his nervous system will be soothed at the same time.

      Bee Breath

      Another fun way to get kids to breath is to practice the bee breath. Get her to sit with her legs crossed, nice and tall and take a deep breath in and then hum like a bee until the breath is all exhaled. This calming breath can help release strong emotions like anger, feelings of anxiety and stress. Try for 5 rounds, but I bet she’ll do more. The vibration of the humming on the head feels good and is a great way to stimulate focus and concentration.

      Lion’s Breath

      The lion’s breath is done by taking a deep breath in through the nose and then as you exhale, you let your tongue stick out and say “hhhaaaa!”. It feels silly and looks silly so it’s a winner! This breath is just another way to have kids focus on breathing deeply while having fun. My kids laugh every time! Do as many times as you wish!

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      Yoga Poses

      Kids enjoy doing yoga poses, my 4 year old daughter takes her mat out all by herself to show me her downward dog, triangle and warrior 2 on the regular! Downward dog comes easily and kids like it. I get her to take 5 deep breaths in any pose she does. Triangle is a good one. The boat pose is fun because kids are literally trying to look like a boat when they do it, LoL. So I have a little list of poses and pictures to demonstrate them.  Encourage your child to breathe deeply for 5 breaths in each pose.  It isn’t important to try and find the exact expression of the poses, rather finding the general shape is good for kids, especially when they are just starting out.  I have included some general points on form for reference.  Do them with your kids and before long they will start wanting to do them on their own!

      The Downward Dog

      This pose is basically an inverted V. This pose strengthens the hands, arms, shoulders, calf muscles, back and core. The upper body is upside down and so it is calming to the nervous system too. Palms flat, press into entire hand. Relax the neck.

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      The Triangle Pose

      This pose provides stretch and strength to the body. Another great benefit is that it activates the abdominal organs. Try for feet to be wider than hip width, front foot turned to the short end of the mat and back foot with toes facing the long side of the mat.  Tip over at the hips like a tea kettle, with the lower arm resting along the front leg or extended down and the top arm up to the sky.  Who doesn’t think it’s fun to be a triangle?

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      The Cobra Pose

      This pose is wonderful for opening the heart and lungs. It strengthens the arms and shoulders. It gives a stretch to the abdominals, chest and shoulders too.  Laying on the tummy, bring the hands next to the ribcage.  Press the tops of the feet into the floor, press into the hands and slowly raise the chest up. Go up as much as is comfortable.  Breath and enjoy!

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      The Warrior 2 Pose

      It gives strength to the legs and arms. It gives confidence and focus to the mind. Kids feel powerful and strong!  Feet apart further with the front foot facing the short side of the mat and the back foot facing the long side.  When bending the front leg, the knee should be above the angle for stability.  Arms are parallel to he floor, extend through the fingers.  Feel the strength and power of this awesome pose!

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      The Butterfly Pose

      This one helps to open the hips and thighs. It also reduces fatigue and releases tension.  It is super fun to do too. My little yogi likes to gently bounce her knees like little butterfly wings when she sits in this one too. Sit tall, bend the knees to bring the soles of the feet together.  If the knees are up higher, it’s okay:)

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      The Tree Pose

      Great for balance and grounding! Start with the toes of the bent leg on the floor to gain balance and as concentration and focus grow, move the foot up the leg. Make sure to let the knee be free and rest the foot above or below as you get more balanced with this one.  Having the arms out helps with developing balance, hands could be in prayer or reaching up like branches of a tree.  Try closing your eyes once you get super grounded in this pose.  Just a fun thing to try! Or keep your eyes open and find a to gaze at, helps you balance.

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      Bridge Pose

      So fun to lift the hips and again open the heart!  Keep feet hip distance and flat on the floor. Grabbing the ankles helps to be sure the feet are the right distance from your body. Gives tons of strength to the legs, helps grounding. It helps with stress and improves blood circulation.  Try to keep the legs hip width apart as you lift your hips.

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      Happy Baby Pose

      This one releases the low back, excellent to do after bridge pose. It stretches and soothes the spine while calming the nervous system. The legs are bent, knees point towards the floor, feet flexed and you can grab the inside or outside of the feet. You can try rolling side to side in this one for a little massage on your lower back too!

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      When you are all done, try laying down softly on the floor legs and arms softly next to you.  This is relaxation.  Close your eyes and imagine birds flying over your head and a rainbow shining over the sky above you.  See how long your child will stay here, maybe 15 seconds or 5 minutes!

      These breathing techniques and poses are a fantastic way to introduce yoga to your kids. There is a variety of poses meant to help kids focus, have fun, get strong, feel good about themselves and explore their bodies in a healthy way. Hope you have as much fun doing these at home as we do! It’s  a fabulous way to have fun together!!!

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    • My Daddy

      Posted at 2:41 am by Lisa K, on June 18, 2017

      He held me tight in his big arms,
      That morning I was born,
      I’ve asked him how he felt that day,
      He said Love made his heart so warm.

      I’ll never forget the time,
      He taught me how to tie my shoes,
      Or when he brought my first bike home,
      And when he painted my new room.

      Outside he looks hard and stern,
      But inside he’s thoughtful and kind,
      Few may witness his deep softness,
      The way his daughters are inclined.

      When tears streamed down my face,
      He’d wipe them away with his hands,
      And softly say to make me know,
      Don’t cry- Daddy understands.

      He walked me down the isle,
      On my beautiful wedding day,
      And he sang to me when we danced,
      What a beautiful song he chose to play.

      He was always ready to cheer me on,
      Patiently listen when I was sad,
      His strength and Love were always there,
      I’m so grateful that he’s my Dad.

       

      By: Lisa K

       

       

       

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    • Yoga After Baby

      Posted at 2:48 am by Lisa K, on June 12, 2017

      After giving birth to two beautiful babies, getting back into my yoga practice presented with different challenges each time. My first baby was a dream, she slept for a long stretch from a young age and birth was pretty rapid and straight forward. I still felt more tired than I ever had and my energy stores were low for much longer than the usual 6 week recovery time. I did start a practice at home, a very short and often interrupted one at around the 12 week mark.

      Important differences I felt in my body were a general weakness in my abdominal muscles, pelvic area and hamstrings. I noticed while I was carrying my little girl around, that my lower back would often get sore. I knew I was dumping into my back as a result of my soft, weakened core (hey, that rhymed).  I began to really focus on trying to activate my core during regular activities, which was more tiring than I could recall it ever being, LoL.

      When I first began to practice, trying to locate the place in my pelvic floor muscles to lift was basically non-existent. I needed to be very careful with my hamstrings as well because when there is weakness in the core, the hamstrings can be overworked and over stretched as a result. There are so many poses that require forward folding in the primary series.   These are helpful for building back strength, but practice must be with focus and care.  I just didn’t fold very far. I concentrated on bringing the chest forward and low belly back.

      I really took my time and only did what I felt able to do because it wasn’t like I could just take a nap whenever I felt like it.  Healing from birth and making breast milk requires a lot of energy. Lack of sleep and a major change in my sleeping pattern made me tire easily at first.  According to yoga, there are some additional explanations for the loss of energetic stores in the body after birth.

      In yoga there are five vayus or “winds” that govern the movement and function of prana or energy flow in diffrerent areas of the body. The apana vayu is located in the root chakra or pelvic floor and is responsible for the outward movement of energy from the body. When a woman gives birth, the apana vayu is very active. There is a large concentration on the energy moving out of the body as the birthing process occurs. Afterwards, it is important to care for the body and attune this vayu. The pelvic floor is weakened and I most definitely had an awareness of this process in my body. There are Aryurvedic diets that can be followed as well to aid in the process of recovery but I didn’t know too much about that at the time. Poses which are good to rebalance are part of the Ashtanga primary series, lucky for me:) These are standing poses and forward folds which help ground and calibrate energy in the root chakra.

      Key Practice Points

      In forward folds, I bent me knees. Trying to activate my pelvic muscles and inner thigh muscles became an obsession. I mean, this area is the basis for all yoga poses and so working hard to build strength here was a necessary tribulation. I sweat into every pose, each like it was a new one. So many new sensations and feelings in many poses that I once felt were so familiar.

      I really breathed into each posture and became very comfortable with how far I was from my pre-baby practice level. Suddenly some aspects of what I focused on in my practice, such as pose depth, became like a joke to me. I felt like I had it all wrong!

      I knew that having a baby was going to teach me many things, but the most poignant lesson for my yoga practice was about perspective.

      I began to understand yoga as a lifelong journey with many fluctuations and cyclical movements forward and back. Not just a linear upward arrow! Just as practice has minor variances from day to day according to energy levels and mindset, on a larger scale, practice will have adjustments as my life and body change. I don’t feel like I was fully tuned into that prior to having my first baby.

      Practice became more sacred. I felt like each time I could get on my mat was a gift. I became much less concerned with anything but getting on that mat and breathing my way through. I was truly humbled by the complexities of life and how they evolved much of how I understood the world and the transformations I saw through the lens of yoga.

      The conclusion being:

      There is no conclusion in sight, just a vast number of layers appearing for me that I didn’t notice before. So interesting and inspiring!

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      After my second baby, I expected many of the body changes that came after my first. I had natural birth and healed well. I still didn’t practice until about 5 months had passed. My son was the kind of baby who would wake up and want to party for a couple of hours in the night. We co-slept until he was 10 months old. He basically slept on the boob, LoL. I had a much different experience and having a toddler and a baby put asana on the back burner for a longer time. My body yearned for it though and I got away for classes a couple times a week at first. I did some strength training as well because my pelvic floor was noticeably less toned than after my daughter. I really worked on that part the most until I could reach those muscles again. I didn’t want to risk injury by underestimating the weakness present in this area of my body.

      At ten months, my son was napping consistently and I could get a good practice time in. Either early mornings, nap time or evening after the babes were in bed. I learned how to be super flexible in my routine. Once a rigid, unstoppable train, I became a fly-by-the-seat-of-my-pants kinda gal, LoL. Yes, more life lessons that having children have brought to me. I know there are many more waiting for me as they grow, but I can wait;). Now my practice is back and has moved forward with regards to the number of asanas that are in my Ashtanga series. I found that by working basically from scratch, two times over, my “spidey-sense” for what is happening in my body has been heightened significantly.

      I am very grateful for the many humbling, stressful, happy, crazy, tiring, joyful, difficult, messy, etc!!!! experiences that I have had with my little ones.

      My advice for any Yogi moms-to-be….

      After having a baby, enjoy the time and let practice find it’s way back to you. Relax into your squishy body, enjoy your new life with all the smiles, tears, joy, intense LOVE and everything in between! There is so much time to find your way back and so many things that will happen in life before that time may come.  Yogis work hard to become strong and flexible in body, in mind it is life which teaches us this gift.

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    • Golden Ball of Light Meditation

      Posted at 10:57 am by Lisa K, on June 7, 2017

      This meditation is one that I learned years ago and practice often. It takes about 10 minutes, but the calming softness it leaves within me lasts much, much longer. If meditation is new to you, I promise that this one has just enough to focus on to help keep your mind from wandering. It is a good one to practice anytime, but I find it particularly helpful when I feel stressed or anxious.

      To start this meditation, find a comfortable place where your body doesn’t need to hold itself up. I like to prop pillows behind me while in bed. Relaxing on the couch is a good spot too. Make sure there are no noises you can control in the background, like the tv or music. Your arms and legs should not be crossed. Let your arms relax beside your body and your legs apart and relaxed at the knees. Closing your eyes will help with the visualization in this meditation as well. If it isn’t possible to meet all these recommendations, make yourself as comfortable as possible wherever you are. Years ago I did this meditation on the go-train so it can really be done anyplace.

      I have included a voice recording of this meditation below as well.  Have a listen:)

      Begin by taking a few deep breaths in through the nose and out through the nose. Try to relax the tummy and let it move freely with the breath. Then begin to envision a faint golden yellow ball up in the sky. As you breath, watch it slowly move down towards you and then settling under your feet. It is about the size of a basketball.

      Feel a gentle warmth coming from the orb of light on the bottoms of your feet. It is soft and comforting to you. The golden light is the hue of a beautiful morning sunrise in the middle of summertime. Feel the warmth begin to move into your whole feet up to your ankles. The golden ball has expanded and enveloped your feet. As you breath, feel into your feet. Let all the muscles, tendons, vessels and bones relax. If you feel anyplace that has tension or discomfort, invite the light into that place in your feet and feel it pass.

      Now feel the light permeate its way up inside your legs. The golden ball is embracing your legs to the level of your knees. Again, feel the light moving through the tissues in this part of your body. Let it soften you, release any tension. The light spirals over your upper legs to your hips. Your entire pelvis is now also bathing in the beautiful comforting warmth of the golden orb. Breathe into your pelvis, breathe into your legs. Let the light find its way into all the tissues and bones and structures of this deep root of your body. Find any areas that need the comfort of the warm light and breathe. Breathe in warm softness. Exhale tension and stress.

      The ball of light is expanding now to engulf your entire torso. Your abdomen, chest, back and organs. Your lungs feel the warmth. Your heart beats and brings with it healing light to your body. Take time to let go of stress, feel the shoulders release, the rhythm of your breathing is comforting. Now the light is spiraling out and around your arms down into your hands and out your fingertips. It is sparkling as it relaxes them. You feel warmth in your throat and softness permeating into your face and around your head. The golden ball is surrounding your entire being and you feel so content and calm. Breathe in warm softness. Exhale tension and stress. Sit and breathe as long as you wish or if you are doing this in bed, allow yourself to drift off to sleep.

      This visualization helps to reconnect with and relax the body and steady the mind. I enjoy it every time I do it. If your mind gets distracted at any time, just call it back and continue on. Some days I am more focused than others and that’s okay. Go with the flow of your breath and each time you use this calming meditation, you will feel soft and calmness come over your being. Enjoy!

      Voice Recording:

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    • Healthy Lifestyle Tips- A Typical Day For Me

      Posted at 4:25 pm by Lisa K, on June 3, 2017

       

      I usually get up at the crack of dawn when my two year old decides it’s time to wake up. I sleepily look over to my night table and pick up my water bottle. It is a 20 oz bottle of room temperature goodness which I quickly drink down so I can go and see my little morning boy. I started this habit when I was breast feeding and continued it on after because it really felt good. This is the first awesome thing you can do for your body in the morning.

      Why?

      Drinking water first thing rehydrates the body after many hours of rest. The fact that the water is room temperature is another plus because it kick starts the digestive tract and keeps it functioning optimally. It also improves blood circulation and flushes toxins from the body. All before you even get outta bed!

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      When we come downstairs for breakfast, I put on our essential oil diffuser with some lemon to invigorate and help us wake up while we prepare for the day. My kids get a vitamin D drop every day of 600 IU and I take 1000 IU. We do this year round. We all take 1/4 tsp of a probiotic containing 15 million bacteria to help strengthen our gut bacteria. We also drink kombucha throughout the day as it is a fermented drink brimming with gut friendly bacteria. With all the research coming out tying poor gut health to many health problems, I feel it is vital to support ours. We have lemon water with real unpasturized honey about 2x week. The lemon water is excellent for pH balancing the body and the real honey has minerals, vitamins and amino acids that are good for the body while tasting nice.

      After I have dropped my daughter off at school and put my son down for his nap, it’s time to focus on me! Yay! Lol. I do my yoga practice for about 1.5 hours. In preparation for it, I like to use a few essential oils. I put sacred frankincense in my diffuser. It is very grounding and calming. I am able to get into my breath and into a meditative state with my practice, love this oil! I rub Valor essential oil over my heart and it gives me feelings of strength, positivity and calmness. My practice is divine and I really relish the time I have to spend each day.  Another 20 oz of water!

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      Hair Care & Skin Care

      When I shower, I use my own products which are infused with essential oils. I really enjoy using them because I know that I have removed toxins from my home and from entering my body while I wash. I have some recipes below for shampoo and a face cream and body butter! I use a face cream or serum for my skin and a body butter as well. Easy to make and use! Check them out:)

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      Lunchtime

      We make lunch with vegetable soups, chili soups, wraps, tons of fruit all cut up and water or almond milk to drink. We also have almonds, cashews and mulberries, raisins, oat balls and banana chips to switch it up and enjoy different foods. As many whole foods with as little added sugar as possible is my goal for lunch.

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      Essential Oil Body Spray Is My Perfume…

      I wear a body spray with metabolic and hormone balancing oils which are blended for women. Instead of wearing perfumes which are filled with chemicals and synthetic fragrance, I love the natural aroma of my body spray and how it works with my chemistry to make a lasting and natural perfume. I have the recipe below as well. I have had some personal issues surrounding my monthly cycle and have found these oils to have created natural balance within my body. Win!! I also use a roller bottle with Thieves blend essential oil and place some on my feet twice a day to support my immune system. I don’t have any health concerns, but if it helps me fight off a flu or cold than it’s work is done.

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      Dinner

      Dinner is usually a lighter meal. Eating as early as possible is best for digestion. Tonight we had rice pasta with a vegan pesto sauce and a vegan caesar salad. I let my kids have real fruit popsicles for dessert.

      Bedtime

      My kids get a lavender roller bottle on their feet at bedtime to help soothe them for sleep. I put a diffuser recipe on for myself in my room and let it stay on after I drift off to sleepy land. I have included my favourite one below. And then I call it a day:)

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      Hope some of the tips and ideas I have included here are helpful. Basically the idea is to hydrate, nourish, move your body and use toxin-free products whenever you are able. I do my best and that’s the best I can do!

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    • Setting Goals?

      Posted at 1:48 am by Lisa K, on May 17, 2017

      Who Likes Goal-Setting?

      Creating goals is an excellent way to plan for your future with something tangible to hold yourself accountable. The issue I find is deciding on goals that are relevant and applicable. How do I make sure the goals I come up with will adequately reflect what I would like to achieve in the short and long term? In talking with people over the years, I am not the only one who has had trouble doing this personally and professionally. Those yearly reviews at the workplace can become a daunting task if you too find this to be difficult.

      My Little Magic Wand~ Keeping a Journal

      If you already keep a journal, you have a book of qualified goals at your finger tips! I am going to share with you how a simple journal can make goal-setting an easy task that will include goals that are perfectly attuned to where you want to be in the next six months to a year or longer.

      Take a look at what you have written in your journal at the end of each week. Write down any topics that come up more than once in those entries. After doing this for each of the four weeks in the month, look over the weekly points and then consolidate them. You will likely find that from each week there will be around 2-3 topics that are reoccurring in one month’s time. There could be more, but if you put them into a hierarchy of importance you can keep it to 2-3 topics. Repeat this process for another month and again consolidate that month to come up with 2-3 topics.

      Now you are ready to set goals for the next six months to one year!

      Look at your two months and check again for any topics that have come up that match. When you have completed this, you will likely have 3-4 important topics that will make relevant goals. When you consider each, think about the context you wrote about them within. For example, one of my personal goals for this year was to be consistent with my daily meditation. I came up with this one because some common threads in my journal entires were about my mind feeling full and having difficulty falling asleep at bedtime because my mind was so busy. It was a strong goal because it came up several times in the two months of journal entries I used for my goal-setting. It is much easier to see the areas that you can work on when they are written down over time.

      Personal goals can range from anything like developing a work out routine to trying meal prepping or learning a new language. If you want to learn to play a new instrument or to spend more time with family members, make a goal and it will become a priority and a reality!

      If you want to use your journaling for professional goals, you could easily write down some work related activities each day with your entry. Maybe you had a meeting that didn’t go well because you weren’t organized or you lost a file because your desk was too messy. Professional goals can be anything from learning more about a new product, or de-cluttering your workspace to learning how to network better and attend networking events. The substance of your goal should speak to something you believe will help you to enhance your skill set and be meaningful to your professional development.

      See how easy it can be?

      Patterns occurring in your daily life are not immediately visible and you may not realize what to look for later unless you write things down. This can be done on the go-train home from work, before bed or any time you have to decompress. Writing daily events without even focusing on any purpose for doing so will still yield material with which to generate goals that are both relevant and applicable. I speak to you about this from my personal experience and who knows? Maybe it will work for you too. You could always set a goal to read my blog each week;)

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