My So-Called Yoga Life

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    • 5 Tips to Motivate the Home Practitioner in the Winter

      Posted at 3:34 am by Lisa K, on January 16, 2018

      So over the last month we have had temperatures as low as -30 degrees and even though the heat is on in the house and I have a space heater, it is difficult to get my yoga practice going in the morning sometimes. I feel almost like the fact that my life has called for some evening practice times has been a godsend even though I am really more of a morning person, lol.  So I thought it would be a good idea to share some of my tried, tested and true motivation methods to get on that mat in the early morning during the dark and cold winter months.

      1. When you open your eyes in the morning, drink a large glass of water as soon as your alarm goes off to make you wake up! I keep my water bottle beside my bed so that I pop up and drink it when I turn the alarm off. This helps to get me up, get my digestive tract moving and overall the habit of doing this helps prime me for getting out of bed. It helps that in the next 15 mins, I will need to use the washroom as well, lol!
      2. Once you are up, turn the space heater on in your practice space right away so it can start to warm things up from the get-go. I always find that when I do this, I feel happy to step on my mat next to the extra warmth already going. It’s akin to having a car-starter for that morning drive! It just makes things that little bit easier, which actually goes a long way!
      3. Wear some extra layers that you can peel off as you warm up. I like to practice in leggings and a sports bra. It isn’t fun to put this on early on a cold day and get to practicing yoga. I wear a long sleeve top and after my surya namaskara, I am usually ready to take it off. Wear whatever makes you feel comfy and able to move without feeling unnecessarily chilly. Even with my space heater, I am acutely aware of the temperature difference as it occilates from left to right.
      4. When it’s cold, sometimes I like to try and talk myself out of doing my whole practice. This is actually okay because as you warm up, your mind will change because you will feel that beautiful feeling of your muscles waking up and lengthening as you warm and strengthen. This is one of my favourite parts of practice. As a home practitioner, it is commonplace to have this internal dialogue of doing just standing poses or primary series for me. I relish the end of my practice when I finish the entire thing and actually enjoy doing some of my more difficult poses because I am more aware of how much more fluid and connected I feel as I practice compared to before I started or how I would feel if I didn’t practice. In fact, the memory of this endorphin high is what helps motivate me each time I feel like giving in to my desire to stay in bed. Over time, it has become a serious motivator so that now I am able to get up at 4:30am when I need to start home practice as early as 5am so that I can fit it into my day.

      People have gasped in disbelief when I tell them the schedule I have and even more so at the schedule I had before I had children. As a dental hygienist working down in the city, I would have to get up at 3:20am to fit practice in at my shala before heading to work for 7:30am. I know it sounds crazy, but when something changes your life the way practicing yoga has changed mine, it is really a no brainer. The priming of practicing at early times and the feeling in my body after each time I practice continues to serve as a serious motivator for me to continue. Don’t get me wrong, there are still days where I have had REAL trouble, but knowing that my feeling will return if I push through has allowed me to get past the initial inertia many times.

      5. My final tip is to plan for a delicious cup of coffee and breakfast after practice. I often think about what I will do and how I will feel after I am done to motivate me to get out of bed when it is most difficult. I also remind myself how upset I will be if I do give in and stay in bed. There is just too much to gain from getting up and doing my asana and breathing through each pose. It really is such a personal time, to connect and feel into me before I spend the day as open to what the day may hold as possible. It is a way to regroup and collect myself, and each time I am able to will myself onto the mat and do my practice is another proof that I am the master of my destiny. It sounds cliche, but I enjoy the ability I have to help myself be my best self each time I am able to do so. I feel confident, I feel strong, I feel capable and most of all, I feel ME. It is what keeps me motivated, sane even. My practice is one thing I can count on, whether it is only standing because my son wakes up or I’m able to do my whole practice. I am there, everyday, contributing to the betterment of my physical, mental and spiritual health. I am my own master. I am the director of what I am capable of doing and it feels fucking awesome.

      So be your master. Kick your butt out of bed for a meditation, a run, yoga, anything that helps you reset yourself and find YOU before you begin your day. It will only bring joy, happiness and confidence and who wouldn’t want that??

      Be your best self, hug yourself and look in the mirror today- smile and tell yourself you are amazing because YOU ARE!!

      Much Love,

      Lisa xo

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      Posted in Life & Yoga, Uncategorized | 2 Comments | Tagged ashtanga, energy, exercise, health, inspiration, life, lifestyle, motivation, winter, Yoga, yoga mom, yogainspiration, yogalife, yogapractice
    • Yoga After Baby

      Posted at 2:48 am by Lisa K, on June 12, 2017

      After giving birth to two beautiful babies, getting back into my yoga practice presented with different challenges each time. My first baby was a dream, she slept for a long stretch from a young age and birth was pretty rapid and straight forward. I still felt more tired than I ever had and my energy stores were low for much longer than the usual 6 week recovery time. I did start a practice at home, a very short and often interrupted one at around the 12 week mark.

      Important differences I felt in my body were a general weakness in my abdominal muscles, pelvic area and hamstrings. I noticed while I was carrying my little girl around, that my lower back would often get sore. I knew I was dumping into my back as a result of my soft, weakened core (hey, that rhymed).  I began to really focus on trying to activate my core during regular activities, which was more tiring than I could recall it ever being, LoL.

      When I first began to practice, trying to locate the place in my pelvic floor muscles to lift was basically non-existent. I needed to be very careful with my hamstrings as well because when there is weakness in the core, the hamstrings can be overworked and over stretched as a result. There are so many poses that require forward folding in the primary series.   These are helpful for building back strength, but practice must be with focus and care.  I just didn’t fold very far. I concentrated on bringing the chest forward and low belly back.

      I really took my time and only did what I felt able to do because it wasn’t like I could just take a nap whenever I felt like it.  Healing from birth and making breast milk requires a lot of energy. Lack of sleep and a major change in my sleeping pattern made me tire easily at first.  According to yoga, there are some additional explanations for the loss of energetic stores in the body after birth.

      In yoga there are five vayus or “winds” that govern the movement and function of prana or energy flow in diffrerent areas of the body. The apana vayu is located in the root chakra or pelvic floor and is responsible for the outward movement of energy from the body. When a woman gives birth, the apana vayu is very active. There is a large concentration on the energy moving out of the body as the birthing process occurs. Afterwards, it is important to care for the body and attune this vayu. The pelvic floor is weakened and I most definitely had an awareness of this process in my body. There are Aryurvedic diets that can be followed as well to aid in the process of recovery but I didn’t know too much about that at the time. Poses which are good to rebalance are part of the Ashtanga primary series, lucky for me:) These are standing poses and forward folds which help ground and calibrate energy in the root chakra.

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      In forward folds, I bent me knees. Trying to activate my pelvic muscles and inner thigh muscles became an obsession. I mean, this area is the basis for all yoga poses and so working hard to build strength here was a necessary tribulation. I sweat into every pose, each like it was a new one. So many new sensations and feelings in many poses that I once felt were so familiar.

      I really breathed into each posture and became very comfortable with how far I was from my pre-baby practice level. Suddenly some aspects of what I focused on in my practice, such as pose depth, became like a joke to me. I felt like I had it all wrong!

      I knew that having a baby was going to teach me many things, but the most poignant lesson for my yoga practice was about perspective.

      I began to understand yoga as a lifelong journey with many fluctuations and cyclical movements forward and back. Not just a linear upward arrow! Just as practice has minor variances from day to day according to energy levels and mindset, on a larger scale, practice will have adjustments as my life and body change. I don’t feel like I was fully tuned into that prior to having my first baby.

      Practice became more sacred. I felt like each time I could get on my mat was a gift. I became much less concerned with anything but getting on that mat and breathing my way through. I was truly humbled by the complexities of life and how they evolved much of how I understood the world and the transformations I saw through the lens of yoga.

      The conclusion being:

      There is no conclusion in sight, just a vast number of layers appearing for me that I didn’t notice before. So interesting and inspiring!

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      After my second baby, I expected many of the body changes that came after my first. I had natural birth and healed well. I still didn’t practice until about 5 months had passed. My son was the kind of baby who would wake up and want to party for a couple of hours in the night. We co-slept until he was 10 months old. He basically slept on the boob, LoL. I had a much different experience and having a toddler and a baby put asana on the back burner for a longer time. My body yearned for it though and I got away for classes a couple times a week at first. I did some strength training as well because my pelvic floor was noticeably less toned than after my daughter. I really worked on that part the most until I could reach those muscles again. I didn’t want to risk injury by underestimating the weakness present in this area of my body.

      At ten months, my son was napping consistently and I could get a good practice time in. Either early mornings, nap time or evening after the babes were in bed. I learned how to be super flexible in my routine. Once a rigid, unstoppable train, I became a fly-by-the-seat-of-my-pants kinda gal, LoL. Yes, more life lessons that having children have brought to me. I know there are many more waiting for me as they grow, but I can wait;). Now my practice is back and has moved forward with regards to the number of asanas that are in my Ashtanga series. I found that by working basically from scratch, two times over, my “spidey-sense” for what is happening in my body has been heightened significantly.

      I am very grateful for the many humbling, stressful, happy, crazy, tiring, joyful, difficult, messy, etc!!!! experiences that I have had with my little ones.

      My advice for any Yogi moms-to-be….

      After having a baby, enjoy the time and let practice find it’s way back to you. Relax into your squishy body, enjoy your new life with all the smiles, tears, joy, intense LOVE and everything in between! There is so much time to find your way back and so many things that will happen in life before that time may come.  Yogis work hard to become strong and flexible in body, in mind it is life which teaches us this gift.

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      Posted in Uncategorized | 36 Comments | Tagged apana vayu, ashtanga, baby, energy, Post-partum yoga, prana, seventh series, Yoga, yoga mom
    • Creating Little Yogis

      Posted at 1:23 am by Lisa K, on March 21, 2017

      It stands to reason that if yoga is an integral part of your daily life, it will inevitably infuse itself into the lives of your children. Sort of like how every word that comes out of your mouth, will eventually come out of theirs… The fact is, children are learning about the world and everything we say and do will influence how they communicate with the world in some way. That sounds a little frightening, because I mean, who is a perfect role model for their child every second of the day? Luckily, I have this yoga thing that will help to balance things out and offer a positive example for my little people to learn from.

      The usefulness of breathing and moving the body, I feel can only be beneficial to the physical and psychological well being of my little humans who possess sponge-like minds and an uninhibited sense of freedom in movement. From the time my little girl was able to see, she has most definitely witnessed me practicing yoga. She has heard me chant and now does it too. I have taught her different breathing techniques which, even though they are still more just play, will help her to deal with the stress and anxiety that she may be confronted with in her future.

      When I stand at the top of my mat and begin my practice with the opening chant, my little girl will OM with me and then hum along for the rest of it.  My little guy even gets in on the humming part, lol.  She will even start doing some sun salutations with me, her little pink mat next to mine. After a few minutes, she finds something else to do, but I think it’s a good start for a 4 year old. She can hear me breathing deeply, sometimes I repeat my mantra for difficult poses out loud. Mine is actually a yoga sutra. She can hear me repeating “Sthira sukham asanam”. This sutra basically translates to mean grounded or steadiness and gentle ease or effortless effort. For her to hear the Sanskrit and see how I am using this may not make any sense to her in a conscious way, but the sort of energy created may illuminate a palpable strength of effort and determination. Both of these things, I hope she will find to be within her own repertoire of assets as she grows.

      For children of this age group, my daughter being 4 and my son almost 2, it is sometimes difficult for them to articulate their feelings. It is also beyond the ability of a 2 year old to comprehend logic and reason and so tantrums happen as an emotional outburst on the regular. Teaching them both to breathe deeply and slowly is physiologically calming, and it takes their minds off of what has been upsetting them too. Bhramari is a breathing technique used to calm the mind and soothe the brain. It is easy and fun for kids because they get to make the sound of a bee! We take a deep breath and then hum as we exhale slowly. Since it is like a game, they don’t even know how it is helping to diffuse their anger or frustration. For my daughter, we can talk about whatever problem that was making her feel upset far more easily afterwards. For my son, we only do this for fun until he gets a bit older and will do it when I tell him it will help.

      I think my 4 year old will be ready to try learning to do some simple chants soon. I have learned several and I think it will be a great way to build concentration and focus as well as calm and produce positive energy. Who doesn’t want that? So you see, yoga really is for human beings of any age. I even remember playing yoga chants and songs as relaxation when my daughter was a baby. Yoga lullabies! So my message for this writing is really to find ways to share your beautiful yoga practices with your children and really anyone who will let you. There is really nothing like sharing something you revere, respect, enjoy, love and feel grateful to have:)

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      Posted in Mini Yogis, Uncategorized | 21 Comments | Tagged ashtanga, breathing, energy, funwithyoga, kids, kidsyoga, miniyogis, yoga mom, yogainspiration, yogalife
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