My So-Called Yoga Life

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    • Living in the Moment

      Posted at 3:46 pm by Lisa K, on July 5, 2025

      Dear diary,

      I’m back on this sunny day, feeling like sharing some thoughts about life. A sea of emotion fills the human heart, so powerful and large that sometimes it feels difficult to keep them inside. When I struggle, in the early moments, it is not easy to see anything other than the obstacle in front of me. With time and practice, noticing all the beautiful parts of life, thinking about them and feeling them can help to balance the boat.

      On that note, I am going to create a series of living in the moment entries. These will be reflections on appreciation and the thoughts and feelings of gratitude and love that surface for me in my little life. Some big things but smaller ones too. A collection for myself to read and look back on and to share for anyone who wants to read or relate.

      Today I’ll start off with my newest little big love – my puppy, Reggie. He’s been with us for only about 4 months, but just  like each of my cats, he already has a piece of my heart in his paws. 

      I have to say, a dog’s love and companionship is different than with a cat. Not more or less, but different, in my opinion. I find myself doing things I wouldn’t consider doing without him. Like going for a big walk in the rain. I just wouldn’t really do that otherwise. But with him, it is not the cold or wet I think about. It is the bond of spending that time together, doing something that isn’t much on its own, but exceptional because we are sharing it and that’s what makes it beautiful. The walking is super cool and during these warm months, my love for the early morning is highlighted in a new way. We walk through the morning dew, look at the sun coming up and he sniffs out every bunny and squirrel in our immediate vicinity. The air is fresh and the scent of a new day always lifts my heart and sets a positive tone filled with possibility.

      My little doggie looks to me to know what to do and anywhere I am in the house, he always wants to be close by. It is a completely innocent and endearing way that dogs have about them. They pick you as much as you pick them and it is something very special and loving that I am currently thoroughly enjoying. 

      Anyone who has one knows, there is lots of work to do with a dog too. The house training and general obedience training take time and effort. At first, that part felt a bit overwhelming for me. It’s a real commitment. But with time, it has become easier as the bond between us grows deeper. He loves our family and creates silly excitement with the cats. When the novelty wore off, it’s the love and devotion that keeps everything continuing on effortlessly. 

      The main lessons for me were again, that time and effort are what is needed for something truly special to take root and flourish into all the beauty and magnificence meant to be and this one comes with the powerful feeling of bursting love. Right now, I am living in the moment with how my little doggie has expanded my heart further and helped me grow my resilience and patience. I am grateful for this life and this moment in time.

      Talk to you soon,

      Lisa xo

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    • The Obligatory New Year’s Post: 2018

      Posted at 2:31 am by Lisa K, on January 1, 2018

      It seems that this year, I am so much more aware of the happenings over the last year than in those past. I started this blog this year and in preparing my writings for it, I suppose it has helped me to really put conscious memory into action as I ponder my thoughts and feelings. I have observed a great deal about my little life and noticed some wonderful things and also some places that could use some really overdue attention. I really love writing this blog, by the way;) There is far too much truth in the fact that we mostly, blindly, fail to acknowledge places in our lives that make us uncomfortable. For me, in the past it was a fear of failing to be my best all the time. I have managed to work quite a bit there and feel much better about this work in progress. This year I experienced some dark times in the beginning of it. Out of my control, but they quelled my growing ability to shine forth more confidently. Many steps back, I notice that I must draw attention once again to confidence in the radiance of my being.
      In 2018, I will take charge of old patterns rather than let them play out. I will speak from within and hold no expectation of how it will be interpreted by those around me. If I am true, I can’t be mistaken for anything other than the true intention that I really am. If negativity happens, it is not me but a reflection of others. I will be TRUE.  I also noticed that I live in a very regimented pattern in my life. Im an ashtangi and it is not difficult to see why I love the practice of Ashtanga yoga so much. It is also very disciplined. However, it impedes my social interactions with people. If time spent doesn’t fit into my comfortable schedule, I can get, well, agitated. I have been aware of this for some time, and have made some progress but it needs more.

      I also can’t cook. I don’t like holding meals because food doesn’t inspire me. I am also vegetarian, which doesn’t harmonize with people around me. Food is more of a subsistence of life for me. It seems to create issues for social gatherings because I don’t relate well to others in this way. I am good at doing activities with people or having a coffee and a chat. Evening visits with a glass of wine aren’t too shabby either, lol, right?? But in all seriousness, I want to connect again without fear of judgement. If I don’t fear it, it can’t burden me. I will practice my meditations, affirmations and general thoughts to help create new mental patterns. If you think it enough, it will become real.  I know my intentions are to relate to others, to feel them.

      The new year isn’t necessarily about changing things or becoming a new person. It is about reflecting on what works and what doesn’t. Realizing what could do with some improvement and what is working better than ever. I like the reset feeling. It reminds me of morning time. I love the feeling of waking up and being out before others. Everything is fresh, untouched by the essence of daytime and I get to see it. That is what the new year is akin to. A time to refresh, reflect and be a better version of me.

      I hope you enjoy this time of year and start off in 2018 with your best foot forward. Be fierce, be powerful, be You.

      Happy New Year my loves!! Best for the coming year to you!!

      Much Love,

      Lisa Michelle xo

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    • Our Guiding Light

      Posted at 7:11 pm by Lisa K, on October 1, 2017

      I write poetry when I feel inspired by an internal emotional experience which needs to be expressed in some way.  The feelings we have as human beings can be so overwelming and powerful, both the joyful and the sorrowful.  Writing is meant to be interpreted by our own experiences and life.  I would love to know how this poem speaks to you💖

      Our Guiding Light

      Sometimes I feel lost,
      And a little bit scared,
      Like I am invisible,
      And no one could care.

      I’m closed and down,
      With a lump in my throat,
      I see no escape,
      Like this path is my fate.

      Suddenly I look up,
      The sky is so magnificent and blue,
      Something inside me unfolds,
      It has a radiant golden hue.

      My breath begins to settle,
      The fear quickly subsides,
      Like I’ve been touched,
      by an angel inside.

      I feel it around me,
      It has such strength and grace,
      It helps me to realize,
      I am worth more than I could embrace.

      When sadness feels raw,
      There is a place within me,
      That lets the emotions run clear,
      And allows me to be free.

      It is soft and yet powerful,
      The essence of our soul,
      Flowing around all of us,
      Gently guiding us to become whole.

      By: Lisa Michelle K

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    • What Is Love?

      Posted at 11:22 pm by Lisa K, on July 16, 2017

      I want to share a poem with you this week.  I have written this poem while reflecting on the seventeen years that I have been with my husband.  When I fell in love with him, I knew he was the one for me.  He is funny, witty and very animated.  These are all keys to my heart❤️  As love grows over the years, it takes on different characteristics and the partnership will inevitably experience ecstaticly happy times as well as despairingly difficult times.  It is strikingly different from what the fairytales say or the ideas we may have when we first jump in.

      At the end of the day, I realize that~ This IS Life.  This IS Love.

      We have ups and downs.  When the times get tough, that’s when both people need to try their best to keep growing together.  One MUST be willing to support the other.  We take turns being the rock and the one in peril.  With each joyful event, Love grows.  With each trial, Love grows all the stronger.  Two souls on One path in life.

      What is Love?

      Racing faster with each breath,
      I can feel my heart beating in my chest,
      Nervous, bright, focused and open,
      My body feels weak, But far from broken.

      At first so fleeting, quick and fast,
      My mind is reeling at this firework blast,
      I can’t tell if it’s real, it feels so huge,
      Like I’ve been spun up in a centrifuge.

      The roots of my tree begin to grow down,
      They lengthen and widen with each day,
      I care for and support it well,
      It becomes a place where hope will dwell.

      With the first big storm the winds gust,
      Deep thunder crashes and fear takes hold,
      The tree branches thrash as it is struck,
      Can it make it through, Oh please it must!

      I listen intently to what it needs,
      I give so much, my heart it bleeds.
      Please don’t give up, you know I’ve tried,
      I’m breaking, I’m shattered, I can’t be denied.

      The sun breaks through and shines on down,
      I sign with relief as my tree rebounds.
      The warmth and light penetrate my fear,
      I see now why I must persevere.

      Lasting as a river eroding through rock,
      As it moves tirelessly through its path.
      It is warm and soft yet solid and tough,
      An equation that can’t be solved by math.

      Love is exquisite, alarming and firm,
      Enduring yet fragile it’s hard to discern,
      It brings us together into one beautiful place,
      A treasure so valued, yet takes up no space.

      Nothing can parallel the emotions it brings,
      It makes me feel so whole, I can do anything.
      Steady and soothing, it’s why we are here,
      Love is the true gift from the Ultimate Seer.

      By: Lisa K

       

       

       

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    • Yoga For Tight Shoulders

      Posted at 3:07 am by Lisa K, on July 10, 2017

      This practice is done mostly while sitting with your legs crossed or on your heels if crossing your legs isn’t comfy.  No mat needed!

      I want to tell you a little story about my shoulders that you just might be able to relate to…

      When I was working as an educator years ago, my hours were around 16 hours a day. I traveled for 3 hours daily and was living life with a high stress factor. Luckily, I really loved what I was doing but I was paying the price for long hours by having very little personal time.  Though I was always active, there was just no time! So I thought I’d try something else that could be healthy- At the time detox cleanses were all the rage. I thought I would try one out since I could augment my diet and clean it up without interfering with my job. It Actually turned out to be really tough. I had to cut coffee, which left me with a three day headache, eww! After the haze lifted, I started to feel okay again. I was quite a different person though, LoL! So much more quiet and less bubbly were the first things I noticed about myself. Not bad things, just very different. I started to pay more attention to myself in other ways as well.

      I was walking around with my shoulders up ALL THE TIME.

      I sat at my computer and worked with them tensed up like this. I walked around the school this way, I took transit home, still tiring myself out by subconsciously holding my shoulders up. I had frequent headaches and felt tension in my shoulders, but thought it was from carrying my laptop bag around and general stress. Wow, once I noticed how this little habit had crept into my daily living, I was kind of shocked at how much I was doing it and above all, how completely OBLIVIOUS I was! I started reminding myself to relax my shoulders every time I noticed I was doing it.

      I think I reminded myself around 35 times a day the first week.

      Just imagine the times I didn’t notice! Anyways, I felt much better after doing this for just 2 weeks. After about 1 month, I had trained myself to function without the raised shoulders. The amount of stress and tension I had released with this simple change in my daily posture changed much about how my body felt in general. It’s amazing how expending energy and creating needless stress can affect the body, especially when you notice the change once it’s removed!

      Why am I telling you about this craziness?

      Well, for many of us, a computer or a desk is a daily reality. I thought it might be a good idea to share a little yoga sequence geared towards relaxing the shoulders and giving yourself a free therapeutic yoga session! I can’t be the only one who has created significant tension in this area of my body;)

      So when you finish up work for the day and want to gear down in a healthy and positive way, give this targeted and easy sequence a go!

      Put on some comfy clothes, NO MAT NECESSARY! Just a couple of fluffy pillows or if you have them- 2 yoga blocks.

      Yoga For Shoulder Tension

      Start in a seated position with your legs crossed. Sitting as tall as you can, take a few deep breaths to begin relaxing yourself. Close your eyes if this helps you to chill out. Then when you are ready, start with some shoulder rolls, go back into a circular motion slowly 5 times and then slowly forward 5 times.

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      Head Rolls

      Roll out your neck by letting your chin fall toward your chest and then inhale as you circle to the right, exhaling as you come around again. You can let your head go back if it is comfortable or simply bring your head through a half circle, letting your neck remain up straight as you bring your head up from your starting side.  Do 5 slowly to the right with deep inhales and exhales and then repeat this process going to the left.

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      Interlace Finger Stretch

      Now take your hands in front of you, interlace your fingers and turn your palms out. Send your arms up towards the sky. Hold here and take 5 deep breaths. Then open them and let them come down to the floor. Now take your arms behind you, interlace your fingers and tip your body forward, letting your arms come up. Hold for 5 breaths and then come back to sitting and let your hands come to your sides on the floor.

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      Elbow Hold Stretch

      Bring your hands to opposite elbows behind you, bring your chin down towards your chest and hold for 10 breaths.  This stretch is a bit more passive and it feels very good with the internal rotation of the arms while letting everything relax into the stretch here.

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      Side Body Stretch

      Take your right arm and lift it up, stretch up and over to the left, letting your left hand walk away from you as you lengthen to the side. Try to keep both seat bones on the ground.  Lift the chest, hold your low belly back.  Hold for 5 breaths, then come back to the middle and do the left arm up, stretching to the right.  After your 5 deep breaths, let your arms come down to rest on your knees.

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      Easy Twist

      Bring your right hand behind your back, palm on the floor as close to your spine as possible.  Bring your left hand to your right knee.  Now take a deep breath in- as you exhale, twist and turn your head to look over your right shoulder.  Take 5 slow deep breaths here and then return to centre.  Repeat for other side, taking the left palm behind your back as close to your spine as possible.  Right hand to left knee this time.  After your deep inhale, twist as your exhale and look over your left shoulder.  After your 5 breaths, come back to centre.

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      Eagle Arm Stretch

      Now take your hands in front of you, cross the right over the left and turn your palms towards you.  Now cross your wrists with the right one away from you and see if you can bring your palms towards each other.  They don’t have to be lined up.  Deep breath in and raise the elbows up until you feel the stretch and hold for 5 deep breaths. Then bring them down, letting your back curl up and your elbows come down towards your abdomen. Breath deep for 5 breaths here and then come up and shake your arms out!  Now try the other side with the left arm crossing over the right, palms turn towards you.  Cross your wrists with the left one behind and try to bring your palms towards each other.  Repeat lifting elbows up, then elbows down with a curled back and then come up and give your arms another shake!

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      Cow Face Arms

      For this pose, you can take a pillow case or other bit of fabric to hold if your hands don’t reach each other in the pose.  This one is a real stretch, so give it a try with your prop first and then give the full on posture a go!  So grab your pillow case near the end with your right hand and raise your arm straight up next to your ear.  Now bend at the elbow only and bring your hand towards the base of your neck on your back.  Take your left arm now and have it down, internally rotated so you can reach for the pillow case which is hanging down your back.  Use your hand to walk up the case, bending at the elbow as far as you feel is comfortable.  Sit tall, keep your head up straight and breath deep for 5 breaths.  Now let go of the prop and shake out your arms.  Let’s do the other side! Take your pillow case near the end in your left hand, raising it up beside your ear.  Bend at the elbow and bring your hand towards the base of your neck on your back.  Take your right arm now, rotate the arm in so as you reach behind you for the pillow case, it is positioned correctly.  Walk your hand up the pillow case a small far as is comfortable and do your 5 breaths.  Shake those arms out!

      If you want to give it a try, do it without the prop.  When you walk your left hand up on the first side, you can press it into your back to move up and grab the fingers on your right hand.  Same fo the left side.  It is an intense stretch so be careful when attempting this version:)

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      Cat & Cow Pose

      Come to table pose. Hips over knees and shoulders over hands.  Now inhale, as you exhale, round your back (into cat) and press your hands firmly into the ground.  As you inhale, let your tummy collapse down (into cow) and bring your head up.  Do this dynamic stretch 5 times while exhaling into cat and inhaling into cow.

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      Puppy Pose

      Come down onto your elbows and bring palms down. Let your chest come towards the floor as you extend your arms away from you into puppy pose.  You will feel this stretch in your shoulders and under your armpits.  Hold for 10 breaths, passively breathe into this pose, walking your fingers away as far as is comfortable.  Let your head comfortably lay on the mat.

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      Thread The Needle

      Come up to table pose again and this time bring your right arm behind your left hand and begin to lower your shoulder down to the mat.  Let your left arm extend forward and feel a nice stretch on your right shoulder.  Hold for 5 deep breaths and then come back up to table and let your left arm come behind your right hand, bringing that shoulder down onto the ground.  Same length in the right arm and hold for 5 breaths before coming back up.

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      Shoulder Release with Prop

      You should be back into table top pose once your prop is in place.  If you have 2 blocks, set them up shoulder width apart on the long side down (on the lowest level) and place your elbows on them. Bring your palms together.  Let your head come down towards the floor. If you don’t have blocks, get a fluffy pillow or 2 and put your elbows on that. It will be a softer stretch, but maybe that’s just what you need! After 5 deep breaths, slowly come out of the pose and put your prop off to the side.  If you were using a pillow, bonus! You can put it under your head for the next pose:)

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      Savasana

      Slowly lay down on your back with your palms up and feet resting outwards in savasana. Relax for 5 minutes or more as you wish.

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      How do those shoulders feel now? I bet they feel loose and the tension you had is long gone! So easy! So quick!  And the way your body will feel if you do just this shoulder sequence a couple of times a week will make a big difference! Hope you had fun with me!

      NAMASTE😊

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